Tears, Tributes As Alia Mourns Late Cousin At Memorial Mass In Benue

It was a solemn and emotional gathering as Benue State Governor, Rev. Fr. Dr. Hyacinth Iormem Alia, joined family, friends, and well-wishers at a Memorial Mass in honour of his late cousin, Ms. Gladys Zi, held at the Chapel of Grace, Government House, Makurdi.

In a deeply moving tribute, Governor Alia described Gladys as a resilient and devoted woman whose life, though tragically cut short at 51, was marked by unwavering faith, love, and strength. “She was not just a cousin but a central part of my life,” he said.

The governor shared touching memories of her spiritual devotion, entrepreneurial drive, and fierce loyalty, particularly during his campaign days when she worked tirelessly behind the scenes. “She gave her all,” he noted.

Recalling her long battle with childbearing, he revealed that Gladys suffered twelve miscarriages before miraculously giving birth to a daughter after thirteen years of prayers, only to pass away three and a half years later.

“It was a miracle, but one we only got to enjoy briefly,” he said.

Governor Alia recounted the circumstances of her peaceful passing: “She had cooked for her daughter and younger sister, then went to rest and never woke up—a sunset in the bright afternoon.” Despite occasional hospital visits, her underlying heart condition ultimately claimed her life.

Her death, he said, came at a particularly difficult time, as the state grapples with a wave of violent attacks. Yet, in his grief, the governor offered words of hope: “Blessed are those who work with the Lord and go to rest in Him, for He will wake them on the last day.”

Delivering the homily, Rev. Fr. Dr. Sylvester Onmoke reminded mourners that it is not the length of life that matters, but how it is lived. He described Gladys as warm-hearted and full of life, always spreading joy wherever she went.

The Memorial Mass drew a crowd of sympathisers, including government officials, clergy, and relatives, who came together to honour a woman remembered for her strength, faith, and love.