Why Women Should Embrace Their Husbands’ Girlfriends — Kudi Alagbo

An actress and filmmaker, Kudirat Ogunro, aka Kudi Alagbo, has advised married women to make peace with the fact that their husbands would have girlfriends.

In an interview with Saturday Beats, she said, “These days, one (a woman) needs to have it at the back of one’s mind that at home, one’s husband could be ‘my bear’. But, when he is outside, he becomes, ‘our daddy’. I believe that 70 per cent of men cheat; so for one’s sanity, one should know that a ‘side chic’ exists somewhere. By doing that, one can celebrate more blissful years in one’s marriage. This truth is bitter for some; but the earlier one knows it, the better for one’s mental health.”

An actress and filmmaker, Kudirat Ogunro, aka Kudi Alagbo, has advised married women to make peace with the fact that their husbands would have girlfriends.

In an interview with Saturday Beats, she said, “These days, one (a woman) needs to have it at the back of one’s mind that at home, one’s husband could be ‘my bear’. But, when he is outside, he becomes, ‘our daddy’. I believe that 70 per cent of men cheat; so for one’s sanity, one should know that a ‘side chic’ exists somewhere. By doing that, one can celebrate more blissful years in one’s marriage. This truth is bitter for some; but the earlier one knows it, the better for one’s mental health.”

The Punch